I was able to write a simple jQuery hack that I wrote and put in my skin file (page.ascx)... Probably not the ideal way of doing this, but it works for now. See below. Hopefully this helps someone else, but note it is only a small hack to bypass this...

So when I used Firebug (in Firefox), I found these blocks of code:

So I needed to change the tab selected to the AD tab, and also change it so the div for AD was viewed, not the DNN Default one.

$(document).ready(function () {
$('#dnn_ctr477_Login_DNN_l').removeClass('LoginTabSelected').addClass('LoginTab');
$('#dnn_ctr477_Login_ActiveDirectory_l').removeClass('LoginTab').addClass('LoginTabSelected');
$('#dnn_ctr477_Login_DNN').attr("style", "display:none");
$('#dnn_ctr477_Login_ActiveDirectory').removeAttr("style");
});